My fiance is the type of person that likes to poke holes in everything. Other than with me and our relationship, he is never satisfied. I don’t know what it is, but he just likes to find faults in everything. If I’m being honest, it actually really bothers me. I love him but I’m the type of person who is happy with things how they are, and I tend to find the good in everyone. I’m with him because I know how good a person he is, even if he has a negative way of looking at things.
The reason I’m bringing this up is because my fiance has just decided that he doesn’t like our kitchen anymore. Once he decides he doesn’t like something, that’s it. Pretty much we now have no choice other than to get kitchen renovations. Melbourne is an expensive place to live, which means we really can’t afford to get a kitchen renovation or remodel any time he decides he doesn’t like it.
We’re supposed to be getting married in six months’ time. What happens if in the month before the wedding he decides he doesn’t like the venue? Or wants to completely change the menu? It would be absolutely ridiculous and almost impossible to change our wedding plans on such short notice. Anyway, let’s just hope that it doesn’t happen because I don’t know what I’ll do.
Since deciding that he doesn’t like the kitchen a couple of days ago, my fiance has begun discussions with a kitchen designer. I was listening in on their conversation and it was absurd. My fiance just about wants to change every single part of our kitchen, which I find highly unreasonable. Our kitchen is functional and completely fine, which just makes this all worse.
I love my fiance but he will need to grow up a bit. He needs to learn that he can’t just get what he wants whenever he wants.